That will be the case in Whonix 12. Desktop shortcuts renamed to include ‘downloader’. Same goes for documentation, window title and window contents.
Here is an older screenshot (without the Qubes specific message):
https://phabricator.whonix.org/file/data/epd4vbnqym63tajhww7p/PHID-FILE-fluqfju3qgvt7hv5wbvx/tb_updater_local_version_numer_detection_not_implemented.png
Here is the text with the Qubes TemplateVM specific message:
Here is a little more background to all of that:
https://phabricator.whonix.org/T400
No.
Just now wrote a feature request…
headless TBB updates [by script]https://trac.torproject.org/projects/tor/ticket/17136